Category Archives: Revolution

Some thoughts about weddings

rings + tables + puzzle

Wedding rings by Rebecca Zemans.

Like many of you, I woke up yesterday morning to find my Facebook news feed a sea of red equal signs. By 9 a.m., 26 friends had changed their profile picture to the tweaked Human Rights Campaign logo to show their support for marriage equality as the Supreme Court began hearing oral arguments; I can’t justify the time it would take now to calculate how many times that number has multiplied.

I also woke up to a notification in my inbox: “You’ve been tagged in five photos.” I knew without clicking that the images would feature me in one of two outfits: a spangly red-and-gold Gujurati lengha, or a short white dress with an illusion neckline and scalloped hem. Yes, I just got married.

[Privilege check #1: I was able to do this in the first place, legally and financially.]

And now the incredibly loving people who witnessed it aren’t hesitating to share photos online.

[Privilege check #2: Having photos of us and our wedding tagged online poses no threat to our jobs or safety.]

All this love-for-love on Facebook is jumbled up in my head, along with:

What follows is an attempt to untangle some of my thoughts. It might belong in my journal instead of online. But if you make it through, I would love to hear what you think and to know what else you’ve been reading that might help me make sense of things and be a good advocate and activist and ally – who happens to be married now.

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Quick links that help me feel a little more optimistic about the world

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Oscar Night leave a bad (Oniony) taste in your mouth? Read, tweet, favorite, and share the Crunk Feminists’ Love Letter to Quvenzhané Wallis.

Want to write a love letter yourself? Check out The Love Letters Project, spearheaded by the luminous Cathy Wasserman.

And speaking of love letters, this article Trish wrote is a loving ode to (many more than) four inspiring people: A Field Guide for Recognizing Millennial Leadership.

Mulled these over and still feeling down? Consider Hannah’s tips for upping your “happiness set point.”

Or, on a very different note, read How to Bring Back the Dead, a beautiful piece my friend Timothy Colman wrote for his dad, and feel grateful for the people you love.

Thanks for supporting my friends (2, 3, 4, and 5 above) and some media-makers I admire (1, 2, 3, 4, and 5).

Photo: Baltimore, MD, Nov. 2012

Weekend reading list, STOP KONY edition

Beads made of PAPER.

Mangos at Kizito's house

I’ve been in Portland all week for a staff retreat, so haven’t watched the STOP KONY video or followed the conversation closely enough. Here’s what’s on my weekend list of things to watch and read:

  • Rebekah Heacock, whom I met on a trip to Uganda six years ago, blogged at Global Voices and is curating links on her own site, Jackfruity.

I also wanted to share this incredibly thoughtful note that my roommate and friend Trish Tchume wrote on Facebook earlier this week (emphasis mine). Please take a few moments to read the whole thing:

Been following the back and forth about this Kony 2012 thing and I finally watched the video this morning. My 2 cents? Jason Russell and the Invisible Children organization are not the problem. Is he irritating? Yes. Is the organization questionable? Sure. But my view is that they’re not the real problem.

I feel like I meet dudes like Jason Russell EVERYDAY whether I’m at a conference or talking with some college kid or just walking around Brooklyn. They have this plan that no one else has ever thought of to save babies in the country of Africa by collecting books about organic gardening and starting a yoga collective that’s also a business and….something something…. Here’s what they have in common: They’re people of privilege (yes – most of the time white, most of the time male, most of the time pretty well educated but honestly not always) with some level of empathy who have the audacity to assume they can dream and do really big things and succeed. And they’ve lived lives that have confirmed that over and over along the way. That’s actually a beautiful thing in my mind. Good for them, they’re very lucky. Why would I hate on that?

In my view, the problem arises when their big plans go unchecked. But right now, it seems like the strategy for “checking” is virulent critique aimed at dismantling the person’s or the organization’s credibility and ability to do any good at all. Maybe that’s necessary sometimes but that seems like a shortsighted strategy. I think those of us who are frustrated with the Jason Russells of the world taking up so much space and so many resources can do better than that.

My longview strategy for “checking” the Jason Russells of the world and all his brahs, is to do what I can to build power and a deeper sense of agency amongst the people that have the biggest stake in fixing what’s most messed up in the world. To create spaces where they can also have the idea confirmed over and over again that they can dream big things and succeed – even if their big dreams right now are as simple as sharing an idea in a meeting and having it be heard.

I’ll keep my eyes on the prize of getting to the point where we wouldn’t even have to invest our energy in tearing down the Jason Russells of the world because he wouldn’t be the loudest voice on the scene anymore. He’d have to put his ideas up against the Global Kids and Public Allies and National Urban Fellows and RISE social workers and ReMedia workers and the GetEqual organizers and, yes, the YNPNers of the world – people who get the complexities of these issues and have the ability to address them creatively AND respectfully. And Jason’s little video would just be another spoke on the wheels of justice. I think that will be a beautiful thing.

[UPDATE] More links as of Monday, 3.12:

  • My friend Danielle Silber, who works at the IRC, posted this link with the comment “Instead of further militarizing the region, supporting Community Driven Reconstruction work can strengthen local communities and civil society’s ability to attain stability, resist military recruitment, and improve the over-all standard of living.”
  • A filmmaker in Uganda wrote his reflection here. Of note: “If people want to improve the lives and prospects of Sub-Saharan African children, they need to understand the things that are threatening them and holding them back…here are the top 50 leading causes of death in Uganda” with a plea to support education, health, and other programs.


Photos: Uganda (Feb. 2006).

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2.2.2012

from the archives: Summer 2005

Uh, and common sense should tell anyone that cancer screenings should be affordable and accessible anywhere, including and especially at Planned Parenthood.

In case you haven’t been following the hullaballoo, check out this blog and the “Komen Can Kiss My Mammogram” Pinterest board. Or read the stories at Planned Parenthood Saved My Life.

Photo: Visibility volunteer Darcy B., summer 2005 (when I was an intern at PPFA).

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The day after the raid

Update: The following is just one tiny slice of what I heard on Tuesday. For a very detailed account from Zoltán Glück and Manissa McCleave Maharawal, head to Racialicious.

I woke Tuesday, as many others did, to Facebook posts and emails and headlines about the police raid on Occupy Wall Street.

I turned to Twitter. I found it helpful to scroll through Baratunde Thurston’s tweets from the night, so I retweeted one of his. (Later, Baratunde created a slideshow of said tweets, helpful both for its navigability and the mid-tweet slides that he added later for context.)

(Note to my mom, who’s learning to use Twitter, and anyone else who might be unfamiliar: the # is called a hashtag and you can add it to the beginning of any word. In this case, if you’re on Twitter and you click on the #OWS hashtag or do a search for it, you’ll find all of the most recent tweets that folks have tagged as being related to Occupy Wall Street. Also, the “RT” stands for retweet, which basically means that you’re sharing something tweeted by another person with all of your followers. Sometimes people put their own commentary at the beginning of a tweet and follow it with the retweet text.)

I kept an eye on Twitter and retweeted a couple of things that resonated with me.

Emails poured in, mainly from my RISE family. One organizer was in Liberty Square much of the morning and I couldn’t resist sharing one of her lighter dispatches:

After work I went down to the General Assembly, or GA, meeting at the square. There were a lot of police and a LOT of people.

It was my first time really experiencing the human microphone, or the people’s mic, in all its glory. Hundreds of people listened and parroted the announcements and rallying cries. Some related to logistics – should OWS keep people in the park awake, all night, and occupy in shifts? One guy pleaded with the crowd to explore the idea of finding “a space with a roof” and turning OWS into a “legitimate, real nonprofit.” This was met with a stonier reception, but he had his time to speak. Another person described the lewd treatment of women in jail last night, and invited anyone who didn’t think women should be treated that way to march in solidarity immediately following the night’s General Assembly. At various points the facilitators would ask the crowd to sit down on benches or the pavement if they were able; this makes it easier for the sound to ripple back.

I tweeted some people verbatim (or as closely as I could). In reverse chronological order, here’s someone issuing a call for stories for this Thursday’s Day of Action:

I like this idea. I’m going to document some of those signs tomorrow.

Next, some folks from one of the working groups suggested that this enormous crowd break into groups to talk about possible steps forward.

And:

But this was relatively short-lived. On one side of the plaza, some groups did begin to meet. On the other, something happened—I was a little too far away to understand what—and folks started chanting at the cops. And meanwhile, the facilitators were receiving conflicting bits of information.

Still, facilitators encouraged folks not to give up on the dialogue. The emphasis was on talking, talking, talking to one another.

Meanwhile, the mic checks continued with people “on stack.” Someone declared that, as a resident of Harlem, she could spend five nights a week at the square and give up her bed to others who might need it. Another person got up and asked that those of us who cannot attend the day of action this Thursday at least start a conversation with our coworkers about what’s happening.

Then Heidi’s name was called. She got up on a bench and began.

She spoke as a native New Yorker and the powerhouse organizer that we at RISE know her to be. She urged folks to recognize that this is not about one group of people who were arrested last night; this is about people who are arrested every day, the organizing that takes place around that and other issues every day. ”Occupy the Hood,” she implored.

I took a bit of video before my phone battery died. The echo makes it really hard to understand, but I can make out: ”If we wait (if we wait…wait…) for more permission (…more permission…ission)…and more injunctions (…unctions)…we will NEVER succeed. Talk to each other. But then find some people who are going to keep the lights going outside of OWS. We need to occupy everywhere!”

I stayed for a few more speakers after that, including one CUNY/Hunter College General Assembly member, who announced:

“On November 21 students from all CUNY schools “will be marching in solidarity to Baruch College at 4:00pm where the board of trustees will be holding a hearing on five year tuition hikes for CUNY schools and for health insurance or the lack thereof for adjunct professors who only make an average of $3,000 a semester. We will not accept that. We do not accept that. We invite you to march with us at Baruch at 4pm. If you have children, if you have student debt, of you cannot afford an education, this is your moment. Education is a right. Thank you.”

I left around 9:30. The mic checks were still going strong.

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Soul Sanctuary recap

Last week I finally got finished editing my album of photos from my retreat in North Carolina this summer. (Remember this?)

apples to apples

Two of my friends went on Soul Sanctuary retreats at stone circles at The Stone House earlier this year and came back glowing, so I applied for the one in late August – the first ever Soul Sanctuary for Artists.

The application felt just right: not too taxing, but an opportunity for reflection and intention-setting. I remember writing things about photography and writing and organizing. I also remember mentioning that the retreat fell just before my birthday. Wouldn’t it be special, I mused, to spend part of that week in Mebane, North Carolina, looking back on 27 and cooking up some good plans for 28? Yes: I played the birthday card.

art studio

The retreats are free and travel scholarships are available. Members of the Stone House community will even help you get from the airport to the land. I felt so good just waiting in the airport for Emily, the hospitality manager. We chit-chatted our way through the 45 minute drive and before we even reached the fig tree-flanked driveway, I found myself asking casually, “So, I can tell that it’s a huge privilege to be able to experience this. Do you try to always make sure that you’re bringing in newcomers, rather than having people come more than once?” (Read: “This is so dream-like that I can only come here once in my life, right?” I got greedy.)

“Oh, no,” she said. “My understanding is that once you’re in the family, you’re in the family. We encourage people to come back.”

Yessss.

hammock view

Noah's fig cheesecake

The rest of the team—land steward Tahz, chef Noah, and associate director Jennifer—were equally welcoming all week. They kept our bellies filled with hearty curries, just-dug sweet potatoes, and the best granola I’ve ever had. They helped us pick vegetables from the garden, encouraged us to spend our mornings in silence and then egged us on as we laughed loudly over dinner, and made themselves available for all sorts of formal and informal check-ins. They invited us to hang out at their event for The Highlander Center (celebrating 75 years of working for justice!) and they helped me and another New Yorker extend our trip when Hurricane Irene swept up the coast on what was supposed to be our last day in town.

in the little reading room

drain, bug

And I met eight of the coolest artists, activists, and artist-activists I’ve ever met. (Realizing how little time I spend around practicing artists, and cultivating relationships with mentors, was in itself an important birthday gift.)

Ellen O’Grady was our facilitator. If you care about Palestine or Israel or family or stories, take a look at her beautiful book.

breaking the rules

I cried as Kim sang to us. Gail read my first-ever tarot spread. I watched Marjorie dance and laughed as Teresa clucked at the chickens and saw the filmmaking fire in Lenore‘s eyes. Joy Marie made me a birthday cake of marshmallows, Saltines, and peanut butter (and everyone clucked over the fact that I was turning 28 – I’ve never heard the words “Saturn returns” so many times in my life).

And as summer turned to fall, we’ve all followed followed Kayhan to Kabul.

spider!

a couple of dishes

Tonight when I sat down to keep up my little November writing streak, I did not intend to take such a long walk through the memory pasture. But since yesterday’s time change, I’ve felt my energy “falling back.” And staring at the sunshine and hammocks, thinking about all the projects into which these people are pouring themselves, I remember all the things I promised myself I’d remember.

favorite hammock

In case it’s not obvious, I’m very grateful to have had this opportunity and I would encourage anyone reading this to check out the stone circles website and apply. Whenever you go will be exactly the right time.

All photos taken at The Stone House, Mebane, NC (August 2011).

November blog post count: 4 of 30.

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NaBloPoMo: Pretend it’s November 1.

I just realized it might be a good idea to try National Blog Posting Month. I am already behind. But I saw this earlier in the week: “the fun thing about creativity: the more you use, the more you get.”

USE IT OR LOSE IT, SMITH.

Let’s go back to the first day of the month. Tuesday. Here are some things I might have blogged that day:

  • Who would you like to see speak at a TEDxWomen event (even if it is a special set-aside event for women, when they should be working on changing the ratios at their flagship conference)? And, they asked, “what woman in your life do you feel is a force to be reckoned with in this society and why?” I rattled off a ton on Twitter and would love to hear who comes to your mind.
  • I happened to get together Tuesday evening with Natalia, with whom I partnered to produce a TEDxWomen event last December.  She runs the Pipeline Fellowship, which trains emerging women investors to support women-led startups. If you are in NYC or Boston and have any interest in learning about angel investing, check them out.
  • And then I got to spend some time with Raylab. Do you care about immigration? You should be following her. Do you care about having fun? You should be eating delicious curry with her at The Islands.
Wow. More like National BRAG Posting Month. I feel very lucky to be surrounded with trailblazers like these.
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Photo: Brittany McCandless, Adaora Udoji, CV Harquail, Liza Sabater, and Ritu Yadav speak on the #morevoices panel after TEDx636EleventhAve last year.

Two weeks ago

Troy Davis was killed two weeks ago tonight. Learn more and take action at the Innocence Project.

I have a few more images from the NYC memorial rally (Sept. 22 in Union Square) here.

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Troy Davis

In NYC? I just learned there will be a march and vigil for Troy Davis tomorrow. Details:

  • 6:00-9:00pm
  • State Building, 125th Street & Adam Clayton Powell Blvd.
  • Gather, express outrage, march to St. Mary’s Church in Harlem, and watch the live stream from Georgia on Democracy Now!

Not in NYC? You can sign this petition at ColorofChange.org: Keep Fighting to Save Troy Davis.

Some reading: Lynching Remixed: The Execution of Troy Davis (Crunk Feminist Collective); Breaking: Georgia Parole Board Denies Clemency for Troy Davis (Colorlines.com); A Grievous Wrong (New York Times editorial); “To All” – A Message from Troy Anthony Davis (via The Prison Gates are Open…)

We’ll return to our [ir]regularly [un]scheduled photos and whatnot soon.

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Springtime in Red Hook

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Red Hook has recently become one of my favorite places to take out-of-town visitors because it feels so different from many other NYC neighborhoods. A funky “museum” on an old barge owned by an ex-clown; bluegrass jams and raucous folksy concerts; and a free (on weekends) water taxi that offers an only-in-the-movies view of the skyline and the Statue of Liberty…

And while my tourists and I eat pie and gaze at flowers, there’s another story in Red Hook: one of a new model for community development.

The Red Hook Initiative works to confront and affect the consequences of intergenerational poverty through an approach that offers support in education, employment, health and community development. We believe that social change comes from within individuals. The momentum to improve the quality of life for Red Hook’s residents – as well as the community at large – must come from the people living in the community. Currently over 95% of our employees live in the Red Hook Houses.

They even run a youth-produced radio station. RHI radio “is teaming up with WNYC’s Radio Rookies and People’s Production House Radio Rootz program to host the Digital Waves Festival: The First Annual New York City Youth Audio Conference” on July 30. Who wants to go with me?

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